Occasions

What do "occasions" have to do with marriage you ask? Everything! Why? Because occasions like birthdays, anniversaries, Mother's Day, etc. are times when we can do something for the people we love. Sure you can do nice things everyday and shouldn't we all? The fact is that we don't. Thus, when holidays and occasions occur, it's nice to celebrate them--no matter how simple.

It doesn't have to be a Hallmark moment either. A handwritten card or note is just perfect as long as it says what you really feel. Ditto for gift giving. No need to spend lots of money to show someone you care about them. Just put thought into whatever you do or give. If you know that your partner has been overworked or stressed, perhaps they need some time off. And, you are available to help out with whatever is needed. Maybe your loved one has wanted you to "do" something out of the ordinary around the house. Offer to do it and see the great reception.

Use occasions to show others that they are not only thought about but cared about. If you have children, set an example for them by celebrating occasions. Let them be part of the card writing and gift selection. In this way, they will keep these traditions alive for their relationships. It is truly the gift that keeps on giving.