Couples frequently argue about money. It's probably one of the most "touchy" things that couples talk about that leads to ugliness. Even in good economic times, which we all know is not now. We have unemployment at incredible rates and we've seen our property values plummet along with our retirement funds.
So what's a couple to do with all the stress they feel surrounding money? First of all recognize that how we view financial issues, along with our spending habits, were established in childhood by our parents. Your partner is not going to change his/her habits just because your income is less, are they?
Here's some suggestions regarding the fragile subject of money:
Again, I suggest that you remember the "good" times of your married life and what attracted you to your partner. Discuss finances when you are both calm, relaxed and feeling intimate. Don't get into yelling or name-calling ever. Try to find compromises on spending. Keep these discussions brief and to the point. No brown-bagging please.
If you join together as a positive force, you can build a stronger marital relationship and your finances will follow suit.
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