New research out found that boredom in marriage, particularly at the 7-year mark, is a strong predictor of future unhappiness and loss of intimacy 9 years later. So, what can one do to keep a marriage from getting boring? First, as a female, don't be so predictable. Do something out of the ordinary. Hopefully, nothing that would impact the marriage negatively, of course. If you are a male, and let's say you never bring your wife anything, bring her flowers after a day at work. Even if it is just one rose. Never do the laundry? One day, put a load in the washing machine for her. A truly sexy man is one who can do laundry and vacuum!!!
Along with keeping your marriage alive would be getting away from the home on occasion. Book a motel for a night and if you have children, get someone to stay with the kids or farm them out to friends and relatives. You'd be surprised how refreshed you and your marriage will feel when you can spend some time alone with your spouse. (No speaking about the kids allowed.) If you can't get away, certainly make a regular date night. Arrange with friends who also have children to exchange babysitting so no money is involved.
Work on keeping excitement alive and well in your marriage. I truly believe it can be a marriage saver.
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