Marriage and Mother's Day (other holidays too)

One thing I've learned over the many years of marriage is that a spouse, particularly female, never gets tired of being recognized on birthdays, anniversaries, etc. In fact, it's a real disappointment when a spouse and or children completely forget or minimize such an occasion. If it's Mother's Day we are talking about, fathers should teach their children early on that on that day, mother will be treated as special with cards, gifts, and lots of affection. It's not necessary to spend lots of money either for a homemade card or gift is just as significant. The same applies to Father's Day. A dad should not be forgotten on his day.

Birthdays should be celebrated as well. What these shows of acknowledgement do is solidify love and caring and you can't do this too much in marriage or any meaningful relationship. Life often gets in the way of telling your love ones how much they mean. Perhaps that is why Hallmark came up with so many reasons to celebrate occasions.

Anniversaries too need celebrating--even if it means a walk in the park or breakfast in bed. Showing courtesy to those you care about goes a long, long way. Try it and you will see unbelievable results.